How To: Behavior Charts

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Apr 10

By visually tracking progress on a sticker chart, we can help kids increase motivation, develop self-discipline, and reinforce positive habits.

Guidelines

Every kid is different and we have to tailor behavior management plans to their individual needs and abilities. We recommend collaborating with the child to create clear and attainable goals, expectations, and rewards. The idea is to set the child up for success while also maintaining age-appropriate guidelines. It’s ok if the the goals and expectations need to be adjusted, but refrain from using punishment or threats as part of the behavior chart.

If positive behavior is observed or reported, the child may earn a sticker. Once a child earns a sticker on the chart, the sticker cannot be taken away for “bad” behavior later. This creates a sense of security in positive progress—maybe they won’t move forward on the chart every day, but they will never move backwards.

Whether or not they earn a sticker, try to find a highlight of each day, a “best moment.” This promotes a growth mindset that values effort over perfection.

GETTING STARTED

Set clear expectations. Establish rules that are age-appropriate, easy to understand, and consistently enforced. One of the best ways to get kids on board with new rules is to include them in the process. Collaborate to find rules that match the values and goals of the whole family!

What behaviors earn a sticker? What behaviors will not earn a sticker? How can we recover from a setback? How many stickers until a goal is reached?

Provide consistent guidance. Positive reinforcement (stickers) acknowledges and rewards prosocial behavior in children. By providing appropriate praise, encouragement, or (with discretion) small rewards when a child exhibits positive actions or follows rules, parents can reinforce those behaviors.

Foster a positive environment. Parental support is crucial for a child's overall well-being and development. By offering a stable and nurturing environment, parents provide emotional security and cultivate a healthy parent-child bond.